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Thursday, 11 April 2013

Bela's Corner: Help, I'm A Newlywed And My Wife Is Allergic To My Semen...

Dear Belarich,
I'm dealing with a serious issue which i'm totally embarrassed to talk about but the longer i keep it, the more terrifying it becomes. I and my wife got married barely 9 months ago and for the fear of God decided not to have sex before marriage. Everything was perfect until we had sex because aftrewards, She had this bizarre reaction; burning, swelling and redness, which was very unusual. At first, I thought she had contracted an STD [sexually transmitted disease]. Horrified, she made an appointment with the gynecologist for testing and was nervous about the result. After several doctors' visits and hours of research online, She finally got some answers, but it derailed our sex life and shook my marriage. The doctor confirmed that she had "Seminal Plasma Hypersensitivity", an allergic reaction to the proteins in my semen. Even using a condom didn't help, so we have avoided intimacy.

My problem now is that I've waited so long for this and now I cant even touch my wife. I'm contemplating divorcing her because I don't want to be unfaithful but I don't want her to feel abandoned. Please what should I do?
Hmmm, please y'all advice him o...what would you do if your wife is allergic to your sperm?

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well that is a serious problem Cox there is presently no treatment except barrier (condom), and if that is not working..hmmmm. Its only God that can help really. I think the wive just has to understand the view, cox there is obviously nothing they can do about it, and its for her good aswell and not just his's. And no man or even woman want to be married and not be able to touch their spouse, it gonna be like hell. i no this is really not a 100% advice but honestly i don't no what to say than to give my view on this issue. Well i wish you all the best in what ever decision you make :)

Bela Reuben said...

Are you suggesting he divorce the wife???

nedu said...

Guy abeg divorce your wife joor. If she's married to someone else then there is likelihood the guy's semen will not give her goose bumps. You sef go pompo anoda chick weyvgo dey feel your swagg.

Bela Reuben said...

thought marriage is for better or worse?

mr xavier said...

Divorce is d only option I see..bcs one f d reasons. God insituited marriage ws for sex..not all bt one. Sinz apparently there is no medical solution he is free to walkaway insted of adultery.kpere

Bela Reuben said...

it's actually a medical condition and surgery can be done to correct the ovarian tissue but this would only minimize the effect of the semen to probably just swelling of the vagina. Marriage is for better or worse...Lets say it was the man's semen that was the problem, that is, he cant have sex wit any woman without this reaction, what would you advice the wife??

Doc said...

Well since there is a name to d sickness,der shd b a cure as well.so both parties should put heads together and seek for advance medical solution.

Bela Reuben said...

the fact that the sickness is identified does not mean there is a cure, cos we hear of HIV and Cancer but dere's still no concrete cure for both...for the person in question to suggest divorce means he has probably exhausted other medical option, so what do u advice him?

Doc said...

Yes HIV has been identified n it doesnt ve a cure but people still live with it through the help of drugs, definitely dey can still manage "Seminal Plasma Hypersensitivity" cos i think marriage is for better for worse.

Azuka Oshiokpu said...

Divorce..most viable option. They decide to have a test tube baby and she allows him satisfy his sexual urges with smone else;but den d@ dsnt feel d same as satisfyin ur urges with ur wife. If dey have to stay tgeda,der r other ways to sexually "please" the woman without penetration but den....I pray say e reach o!!! So...if they don't believe in TB Joshua*lolss*,den dey shd js walk away or make sm tough compromises.

Bela Reuben said...

You make sense today...

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